to rush or not to rush? that is the question.<\/p>\n
and as a lost, confused, na\u00efve, soon-to-be freshman, i decided to do some research so i could find out whether or not greek life is for me. here are some of the most important pros and cons to rushing.<\/p>\n
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many people are a little worried about not making friends in college. joining a sorority or fraternity gives them a sense of security so that they know they will have a community of sisters or brothers no matter what.<\/p>\n
but at the same time, it\u2019s important to realize that you will make friends even if you don\u2019t rush. yes, having that community is nice but don\u2019t rush just because you\u2019re scared you\u2019ll be alone if you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n
being a graduate of the greek system will give you an instant bond with other members, young and old, who you may meet out in the real world. so, alumni of your sorority or fraternity will often be more interested in hiring you than others.<\/p>\n
you\u2019ll never ever have nothing to do on a weekend night. greek organizations always have something planned, from formals to community service events to other bonding activities. you won\u2019t be bored, that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n
while the whole process is very exciting, it can be a lot to handle on top of schoolwork and other activities you may be participating in. it can mean anything from buying a new wardrobe to serious hazing. no matter what, it won\u2019t be easy.<\/p>\n
yes, your social calendar will be full, but that means you won\u2019t have much time for non-greek related pursuits. and you better love your sisters or brothers because you\u2019re probably going to be spending the majority of your time with them.<\/p>\n
when i picture sororities and fraternities, i see big, beautiful mansions. and although this vision may be a stereotype, it has some truth to it. greek housing often costs more than a dorm or off-campus apartment. not to mention what you\u2019ll have to spend on parties, charity events, and for sororities, stuff for your little during big-little week.<\/p>\n
rush can be an emotional time if your dream sorority or fraternity doesn\u2019t love you as much as you love them. but hazing can be even worse than rejection. over the past few years, stories of hazing gone wrong have flooded the news. these seemingly harmless dares and pranks can turn into matters of life and death. is joining an exclusive group really worth your own health? i don\u2019t think so.<\/p>\n
at the end of the day, i still haven\u2019t decided if i want to join a sorority. but i have time. and i also have the option to rush without actually committing. there\u2019s no pressure. i definitely don\u2019t want to make a decision that i\u2019m going to regret.<\/p>\n
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